Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Christmas fun
Monday, December 22, 2008
Chri-mas 'ights, Mama. Chri-mas 'ights.
Well, folks, we are just shy of 3 days away from Christmas morning. And we are really looking forward to it this year. Tyler did well last Christmas, but this year he's really gotten the hang of unwrapping gifts (he had practice the other night), and he's been intrigued with all of the lights and trees and sounds of Christmas. He loves to announce (loudly) to us every time that we pass a house with lights on it. He yells, "'Ights, Mama! Chri-mas 'ights!!!! Man!" (That's "snowman" in Tyler speak.) I want to take him downtown to see the lights at the James Center sometime before the New Year, because I know he'll love it.
We put the tree up last weekend, and we are pleased to announce that Tyler has left it alone - for the most part. He attempted to help me decorate, but that was quickly suspended when he just started chucking ornaments onto/into the tree. I finished the decorating when he went to bed, so he awoke the next morning to a fully decorated tree to which he just stared at and said, "Oooh, 'ights." We even have fulyl wrapped presents under the tree, complete with bows. He has just recently started to notice them and slowly inches his way to the gifts to lightly touch them, but so far so good. As long as we can make it 60 more hours, we're golden.
We've gone a bit overboard on the gifts for Tyler - something I said that I just wouldn't do. But it's so hard not to pick up a little something here and there for your favorite little man. We had Tyler with us when we bought a lot of it too - I'm going to miss being able to do that in the future. We also had him with us when we bought our gifts for the Salvation Army Angel Tree, a tradition that has been in my family & Travis' family for years. We're happy to be able to share this with Tyler to show that Christmas isn't just about "gimme gimme gimme". Hmm, I wonder if Santa went as overboard as we did??? Guess we'll have to wait until Christmas morning to see.
We wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year (in case we don't update here before then). Enjoy your time with your family and friends! Much love to those that we don't see often! (PS - Sorry about the one lone picture. We just got a new laptop yesterday, and I have not had time to move the files over. This is all I had to work with.)
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Santa!
We took Tyler to see Santa over at Short Pump Town Center again this year. We didn't have high hopes for this visit this year, seeing as several of our friends with toddlers at the same age had some less-than-pleasant experiences. When we got there, there was a bit of a line, so Travis took Tyler to the play area while I stood in line. Travis took him over to Santa's exit to see the big guy in action and Tyler even waved to Santa and got a wave back! We started to think that we might not have such a bad visit after all! Next thing we knew, it was our turn. Tyler started to look a bit anxious, and once he got up close & personal with Saint Nick, he was suddenly VERY unsure about it all. But we brought Marcie the Bear with us, and Santa picked her up and hugged & kissed her. He talked to Tyler while we sat him in Santa's lap. Tyler fussed a little bit, but the photographer managed to get a brief smile from him with a quickie game of peek-a-boo. This picture was taken as the smile was fading, but hey, at least he's not screaming, right?

Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Our Thanksgiving
It’s hard to believe that the holidays are upon us! I feel like this year has just flown by. We certainly hope that everyone had a safe & wonderful Thanksgiving! We know that we did!
We had Thanksgiving lunch with Travis’ family – Gramme & Granddad Snead, Great-Grandma Smith, Aunt Jenn & Uncle Brian (and Aunt Jenn’s little peanut in her tummy – Tyler’s going to be a cousin in June!). It was a great meal and we had a nice time visiting. While Tyler napped, I perused the Black Friday ads and determined that Travis needed to get to Sears before 5:00 am the next day to get a front-loading, high efficiency washer & dryer pair that were on a BIG TIME sale. That was nice of me, wasn’t it?
Anyway, after we left Gramme & Granddad’s house, we made our annual trip to Wal-Mart. Before Tyler, it would be that we would only make a trip to Wal-Mart once a year, and that was on Thanksgiving Day. While I enjoy Wal-Mart’s prices and selection, I’ve never been a fan of the crowds, the parking, and so on. Thanksgiving Day is heaven in Wal-Mart. No one there, no lines, no fighting, no parking issues. It’s truly a lovely experience. But we’ve found ourselves shopping at Wal-Mart more often now, so we’ve had to just learn to deal with it. It was nice to have one calm shopping day there though. We were able to buy lots of gifts for our Salvation Army Angel, a tradition that Travis & I both grew up with and hope to continue with Tyler so that he can see that Christmas is also about helping others in need, not just about toys for him. 
On Friday, we packed up and headed to Browns Summit, NC to visit Nana Scoggin. She had a full house there – Heath, Maureen, Kayla, & Bryan; Nathan, Donna, Jessi, & Becky; Harry, Jayne, & Harry Lee; Kevin, Debi, Kevin Jr., Mike, & Amy. It was so nice to see everyone. We hadn’t had the opportunity to see them in quite a while. Tyler had a great time playing with his cousins (well, my cousins, so I guess they’re his cousins once removed?). He has a blast riding in the golf cart, and visiting with the miniature horses across the street. I’m glad that we were able to get down there, and hope to make another trip sooner rather than later.
And I’ll leave you with this. Tyler has recently become attached to a stuffed teddy bear that I have. This bear was a gift that I gave to my friend Heidi in college when her best friend passed away. Years later, it shows up on my doorstep after Mom’s death. Heidi wanted to share him. Well, this bear has been in our bedroom for 2 years now, and Tyler never really noticed it. Until about a week and a half ago, when he picks it up, gives it a hug, and decides that this bear must go everywhere with him. I asked him what this bear’s name is and he replied “Marcie”. Marcie is the name of his daycare director (who also has a little girl in Tyler’s class). Marcie does everything with us, but we won’t let her leave the house (unless it’s an out of town visit). Marcie said she’s flattered that he’s named his bear after her, and I guess it just shows that he truly is well taken care of at daycare. And that’s extremely comforting.
We had Thanksgiving lunch with Travis’ family – Gramme & Granddad Snead, Great-Grandma Smith, Aunt Jenn & Uncle Brian (and Aunt Jenn’s little peanut in her tummy – Tyler’s going to be a cousin in June!). It was a great meal and we had a nice time visiting. While Tyler napped, I perused the Black Friday ads and determined that Travis needed to get to Sears before 5:00 am the next day to get a front-loading, high efficiency washer & dryer pair that were on a BIG TIME sale. That was nice of me, wasn’t it?
Anyway, after we left Gramme & Granddad’s house, we made our annual trip to Wal-Mart. Before Tyler, it would be that we would only make a trip to Wal-Mart once a year, and that was on Thanksgiving Day. While I enjoy Wal-Mart’s prices and selection, I’ve never been a fan of the crowds, the parking, and so on. Thanksgiving Day is heaven in Wal-Mart. No one there, no lines, no fighting, no parking issues. It’s truly a lovely experience. But we’ve found ourselves shopping at Wal-Mart more often now, so we’ve had to just learn to deal with it. It was nice to have one calm shopping day there though. We were able to buy lots of gifts for our Salvation Army Angel, a tradition that Travis & I both grew up with and hope to continue with Tyler so that he can see that Christmas is also about helping others in need, not just about toys for him. 
On Friday, we packed up and headed to Browns Summit, NC to visit Nana Scoggin. She had a full house there – Heath, Maureen, Kayla, & Bryan; Nathan, Donna, Jessi, & Becky; Harry, Jayne, & Harry Lee; Kevin, Debi, Kevin Jr., Mike, & Amy. It was so nice to see everyone. We hadn’t had the opportunity to see them in quite a while. Tyler had a great time playing with his cousins (well, my cousins, so I guess they’re his cousins once removed?). He has a blast riding in the golf cart, and visiting with the miniature horses across the street. I’m glad that we were able to get down there, and hope to make another trip sooner rather than later.

And I’ll leave you with this. Tyler has recently become attached to a stuffed teddy bear that I have. This bear was a gift that I gave to my friend Heidi in college when her best friend passed away. Years later, it shows up on my doorstep after Mom’s death. Heidi wanted to share him. Well, this bear has been in our bedroom for 2 years now, and Tyler never really noticed it. Until about a week and a half ago, when he picks it up, gives it a hug, and decides that this bear must go everywhere with him. I asked him what this bear’s name is and he replied “Marcie”. Marcie is the name of his daycare director (who also has a little girl in Tyler’s class). Marcie does everything with us, but we won’t let her leave the house (unless it’s an out of town visit). Marcie said she’s flattered that he’s named his bear after her, and I guess it just shows that he truly is well taken care of at daycare. And that’s extremely comforting.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Video post - GRACIE!!!!
For a while now, Tyler likes to call Gracie. All the time. And he likes to give her commands. "Gracie - EAT! Gracie - DOWN! Gracie - NO! Gracie - SIT!" But he also loves to pet her and give her lots of attention, and Gracie is very patient with him. VERY patient. (Yes, we do still have another cat, Beemer. But he's not nearly as patient as Gracie and he doesn't generally come around while Tyler is awake.) Anyway, here's Tyler sharing his milk with Gracie.
Friday, October 31, 2008
Happy Halloween!!!
When we tried his costumes on him before Halloween, Tyler had a fit. You would have thought that we were amputating something. So we feared that we would have to go to our "backup" costume. But something clicked tonight, and we were able to dress him in the costume bought by his MawMaw Ange. THANK YOU MawMaw Ange (and Wagner & Waylon too!). We took him to a few houses in our cul-de-sac, and it didn't take him long to figure out just what was going on. Once he figured out that people were giving him something, ANYTHING, for looking cute and saying "pleeeeeeease", he was all into it. (And as you can tell from a few of these pics, he was inspecting the "goods" in his pumpkin often tonight.) Happy Halloween all!

Monday, October 20, 2008
Fall is here!

And with fall comes changing leaves, pumpkins & Halloween, and cooler days. We took Tyler to Ashland Berry Farm this weekend to pick pumpkins. It’s not too far from our house and is a very popular place in the fall. We drove up so that we got there right as we opened, and boy, are we glad that we did! When we got there, there wasn’t a line or a long wait for a tractor ride to the pumpkin patch. We were able to hop right on and go. But when we came back, the line was really long and we probably would have had to wait 30 minutes or so. That wouldn’t have been fun, since yesterday was actually pretty chilly with a light breeze. Anyway, we got on the tractor and we think Tyler enjoyed himself. He sat perfectly still in my lap and just looked all around him as we rode.
We got to the patch and let Tyler run around and look at all the pumpkins. (And he can say “pumpkin” pretty clearly now too!) The crop looked really good and Tyler helped us pick out a couple of really good ones, and he carried around a very, very, very small pumpkin (that he ended up smashing when we got back home, but whatever). Ashland Berry Farm has an “all you can carry for $20” deal, so we loaded Travis up with the four decent-sized pumpkins to take advantage of that deal. And thankfully, the rain from the previous days had dried up for the most part, so it wasn’t too terribly muddy, but we definitely walked away with a much dirtier little boy than we came with! Poor thing lost his footing several times, through the vines and irrigation pipes. 
We took the tractor back to the farm, and walked around a bit more. We went into one of the farm houses, which had lots of Halloween and Christmas decorations on display, and also had 2 pigs! They weren’t doing anything exciting, just sleeping, so I think that’s why Tyler wasn’t too terribly interested. But it was still neat to see them. All in all, we had a great time, even though it was a bit chilly. We look forward to being able to take him there each year.
Also this weekend, Travis started the dreaded chore of raking leaves. Our trees in the backyard have been dropping leaves for a few weeks now, and we’ve been waiting in agony for the big tree in our front yard to start dropping. Once that tree starts, it feels like it never ends. So Travis got to work on that, and Tyler thought that was the most fun ever. He loves running through the leaf piles and jumping in them. He liked to ride in the wheelbarrow as Travis made his trips to the back of the house with leaves. And he even got his own rake from Gramme and Granddad this weekend, which he simply calls “stick” (and sort of uses like a weapon – oops). But he had a great time “helping” in the yard, and even helped me pull up some of our old, dead pansies. There’s lots more “helping” to be done so hopefully his love of yardwork will stick around a while!
Also this weekend, Travis started the dreaded chore of raking leaves. Our trees in the backyard have been dropping leaves for a few weeks now, and we’ve been waiting in agony for the big tree in our front yard to start dropping. Once that tree starts, it feels like it never ends. So Travis got to work on that, and Tyler thought that was the most fun ever. He loves running through the leaf piles and jumping in them. He liked to ride in the wheelbarrow as Travis made his trips to the back of the house with leaves. And he even got his own rake from Gramme and Granddad this weekend, which he simply calls “stick” (and sort of uses like a weapon – oops). But he had a great time “helping” in the yard, and even helped me pull up some of our old, dead pansies. There’s lots more “helping” to be done so hopefully his love of yardwork will stick around a while!
Sunday, October 05, 2008
We made it!

Well, folks, we made it through our first child-free mini-vacation. Last week, Travis and I headed to Las Vegas for 4 nights and left Tyler with his Gramme and Granddad for the duration. We dropped Tyler off on Thursday night. We ate dinner with him, got him bathed and dressed for bed, and then came the worst moment of my life. Leaving my baby. Tyler shed many tears, but I think that I win for most hysterical breakdown. I was inconsolable. Even the thought that I was going to be in Vegas for a few days with great friends and no parental responsibilities didn't calm me down. I was leaving my baby. I cried most of the way down 295 on the way home. I wasn't sure that I wanted to go to Vegas anymore. But once we got home, got packed, and didn't get any frantic phone calls from the grandparents about what to do, I was able to sleep and be excited about the adventure ahead!
We left for Vegas on Friday morning, and this started Tyler's fun time with Gramme and Granddad. He got lots of outside play time in his log cabin that they have for him, visited with his Great-Grandma Smith, went shopping, played with his Aunt Jenn and wrestled with his Uncle Brian. We called and checked on him every day, though he rarely wanted to actually talk on the phone. We knew he heard us because he loves to hold a phone to his ear, but he rarely said much. I was starting to think that he didn't really miss us much at all!
Though he was confused when we got home and he was back in his own house, he warmed up quickly and he's back to being the clingy Mama's boy that he's always been. And I wouldn't have it any other way. He picked up lots of new words and sayings while we were gone. He says "Aw, man!" (which is hilarious) and "diaper" to name a few. And I swear that he got bigger and that his hair got longer in the 5 days we were gone. He uses a fork and spoon really well now. He walks down stair unassisted. It's amazing how much you miss in just those few days.We did come back with gifts. We stopped by FAO Schwartz in Caesar's Palace, and bought Tyler a Brio train set, which he loves. I'm hoping to find him a wooden train table for Christmas (shhh, don't tell him!) so that he can have his track and trains out of the way and easily accessible! All in all, Travis & I had an amazing time with friends in the great city of Vegas and we all survived being apart from each other. I'm not ready to do that again anytime soon though. For now, I'm ready to just keep soaking up as much time and love from my little boy as possible.
We're off to Lynchburg next weekend to visit Grandpa Ed, Uncle Eddie, & Great-Nana Woody. We haven't been there since mid-August, so it will be great to spend some time with them. And a final note: CONGRATULATIONS to our friends Marty & Meredith and their little girl, Elise. They welcome Lucas to their family this past week. CONGRATS!
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Are you ready for some football?
Apparently, we are. Tyler has 2 new jerseys to wear this football season. A new Virginia Tech jersey from Uncle Eddie, and a new Tony Romo jersey from Gramme & Granddad Snead. It's really easy to pick his clothes out on the weekends now. Just have to know who's playing when.
And I've become a bit obsessed with Tyler's curls lately. I can't seem to take enough pictures of them! I guess I want to enjoy them for as long as we can. We know that the "first haircut" has to come....one day. But for now, we're keeping his sweet, blonde curls - until someone mistakes him for a girl. Then all bets are off!

Tyler has really taken a liking to stickers lately, and that's been helpful in establishing a reward system. We give him stickers when he's being good (i.e. this morning when we had to take him to LabCorp), and hope to be able to use stickers as a reward for potty training. Speaking of potty training, no, we are nowhere near ready for that yet, but we did go ahead and invest in a potty for Tyler. And he'll sit on it (while saying "sit, sit") but that's about. That's OK, we just want him to know that it's there for him, and to explore and get used to it.
We've got a busy end of the month around here. Travis and I leave for Las Vegas to meet up with some friends on the 26th. We get back on the 30th, and Tyler will be staying with Gramme & Granddad Snead for that time. Unfortunately, due to circumstances beyond our control, we weren't able to have more than one "test night" at their house, so here's hoping that we all do well! Trav has been away from Tyler when he travels on business, but this will be my first big outing without him. And while I'm nervous about that, I'm also excited to have some "play time" for Travis & I. So keep your fingers crossed for us all!!!Wednesday, September 03, 2008
18 months old - and a language explosion!

No need to check the calendar behind me, it’s true. Tyler is really 18 months old! It’s so hard to believe how quickly time has passed since he’s been here. I thought back to this time last year, and all of the things that he was doing then – sitting up unassisted, just starting to use (or play with) a sippy cup, eating his first foods. And now look at him. We’ve got a certified walking, talking, climbing toddler. (And I’ll go ahead and cut you off now – no, that does not mean it’s time for us to have another one, but thanks anyway.) We took him to get professional pictures done, something that we hadn’t done since his birthday. What a big boy he’s becoming, right before our eyes. And, if we do say so ourselves, a very handsome boy at that.
According to every parenting book out there (which I don’t have time to read anymore), 18 months is a pretty big age. Lots of things start to happen. Toddlers generally start testing more limits (yep), talking more (absolutely), changing the way that they play to use more of their imagination (you betcha), and so on. The biggest development that we’ve noticed is the change in Tyler’s vocabulary. I swear he says a new word (or 2!) a day. Just yesterday, we were at the pediatrician’s office for his well visit (stats later) and he looked at Travis and pointed and said “book”. I asked when he started saying that because I had never heard it. Travis said it just happened a night or so ago during storytime. See? We can’t keep up with the new words! Some favorites: “No-no, Gracie. Not nice.” (I should add that Gracie is usually not doing anything wrong. He just follows her around the house wagging his finger at her, saying this.) “more” (followed by “milk” or “snack” usually), “shoes” (the kid loves shoes), “blocks”, “outside” which is followed by “hat” since he knows that he has to wear a hat to go outside.
There’s a ton more, but I won’t bore you (further) with a comprehensive list. We get a couple of strings of words from time to time (see the Gracie comment above) and we heard “I got shoes” once. It’s so nice to be able to really communicate with him now though! We have fewer frustrations when it comes to what he wants. Notice I said fewer and not “no frustrations”. The doctor said to be prepared for even more words to come at a rapid pace as he nears his 2nd birthday.
And speaking of the doctor, all is well. Tyler weighs 26 lbs. 12 oz. (60th percentile), is 33.5 inches tall (80th percentile), and still has a whopper of a head, but that’s ok.
Developmentally, he looks great and is doing all of the things (and more!) that a “normal” 18 month old should be doing. He’s even doing many of the things that she said that he should be doing at 24 months (i.e. pointing out body parts). At 18 months, the doctors have the parents complete a checklist which would potentially point out warning signs of autism. Thankfully, there are no warning signs where Tyler is concerned, not that we ever thought there would be. We do have to go for some bloodwork soon so that they can rule out anemia. Tyler’s past couple of finger pricks in the office have come back slightly lower than normal for his iron levels, so they want to figure out just how low his iron levels are and what might be causing it. So we’ll have that done next week sometime and once they get the results, we’ll talk to the doctor again and see what, if anything, needs to happen. It may be something like an iron supplement, or it may be nothing at all. We’ll just wait and see. But overall, it was another great appointment, and we don’t go back until he’s 2!
According to every parenting book out there (which I don’t have time to read anymore), 18 months is a pretty big age. Lots of things start to happen. Toddlers generally start testing more limits (yep), talking more (absolutely), changing the way that they play to use more of their imagination (you betcha), and so on. The biggest development that we’ve noticed is the change in Tyler’s vocabulary. I swear he says a new word (or 2!) a day. Just yesterday, we were at the pediatrician’s office for his well visit (stats later) and he looked at Travis and pointed and said “book”. I asked when he started saying that because I had never heard it. Travis said it just happened a night or so ago during storytime. See? We can’t keep up with the new words! Some favorites: “No-no, Gracie. Not nice.” (I should add that Gracie is usually not doing anything wrong. He just follows her around the house wagging his finger at her, saying this.) “more” (followed by “milk” or “snack” usually), “shoes” (the kid loves shoes), “blocks”, “outside” which is followed by “hat” since he knows that he has to wear a hat to go outside.
There’s a ton more, but I won’t bore you (further) with a comprehensive list. We get a couple of strings of words from time to time (see the Gracie comment above) and we heard “I got shoes” once. It’s so nice to be able to really communicate with him now though! We have fewer frustrations when it comes to what he wants. Notice I said fewer and not “no frustrations”. The doctor said to be prepared for even more words to come at a rapid pace as he nears his 2nd birthday.And speaking of the doctor, all is well. Tyler weighs 26 lbs. 12 oz. (60th percentile), is 33.5 inches tall (80th percentile), and still has a whopper of a head, but that’s ok.
Developmentally, he looks great and is doing all of the things (and more!) that a “normal” 18 month old should be doing. He’s even doing many of the things that she said that he should be doing at 24 months (i.e. pointing out body parts). At 18 months, the doctors have the parents complete a checklist which would potentially point out warning signs of autism. Thankfully, there are no warning signs where Tyler is concerned, not that we ever thought there would be. We do have to go for some bloodwork soon so that they can rule out anemia. Tyler’s past couple of finger pricks in the office have come back slightly lower than normal for his iron levels, so they want to figure out just how low his iron levels are and what might be causing it. So we’ll have that done next week sometime and once they get the results, we’ll talk to the doctor again and see what, if anything, needs to happen. It may be something like an iron supplement, or it may be nothing at all. We’ll just wait and see. But overall, it was another great appointment, and we don’t go back until he’s 2! Thursday, August 21, 2008
The end of summer draws near
Travis has been taking Tyler to the pool at least once a weekend (which, we guess, will close after Labor Day which is too early this year!) and he has been getting more and more fearless each time he goes. I got to see this first hand this past weekend. We went to Lynchburg to visit Grandpa, Uncle Eddie, and Great Nana Woody, and the Hill City Fishing Club’s annual end-of-season get together was Saturday. So we got to go too. It’s always held at John & Helga’s house, and they have a pool.
Tyler had a blast jumping in from all sides, splashing at us, sticking his head in the water, and playing with the pool noodles, kickboards, and other pool toys. He also had a good time watching Wagner & Waylon (who were there with Bridges) play, swim, and splash. We definitely have a water baby on our hands! I’m frantically searching for some place to enroll him in swim lessons this winter so that he’s ready for next summer. The problem I keep running into though is that it seems that most toddler classes of ANYTHING are held during the weekday. Well, that’s just great for those people who are fortunate to stay at home with their kids, but what about us working parents???? Argh, rant over.
Anyway, we had a great time visiting with friends, and playing with other kids. Tyler did really well and entertained the masses. He had a blast looking at a set of twin boys that were at the cookout. They were 10 months old, and Tyler liked to look at them in their carriers, or spy on them while they were in their floats in the pool, or sneak a peek while they played on a blanket on the pool deck. With all the little ones around that day, I’m sure he felt like it was just another day at daycare! Tyler got to help Grandpa with his cooler maintenance, which he loved. Apparently, those skills stick with you for life.
Tyler’s been enjoying the summer with his Gramme & Granddad Snead too. On a few visits, they have taken him over to Short Pump Town Center to play in their play area, and to ride the train that goes through the shopping center. I don’t think that he was really impressed with the train the first time, but he seems to be warming up to it. They also were given a “log cabin” toy house by some neighbors, and Tyler has had a great time playing in that. It’s a house that’s just his size!
Travis & I also took Tyler to Trav’s alma mater recently, since we had visited Mary Wash. We headed up to Ashland to Randolph-Macon College (VERY short trip – only about 20 minutes or so), and sat at the train station to see if we could watch some trains go by. We only saw one, which was disappointing, but we’ll head back up there again to try. We also walked around the campus and let Tyler dip his feet into the RMC fountain, which he loved. It was pretty cold, which shocked us all, but he had a great time anyway. I’ve been in the Richmond area for 6 years now, and this was my first time on the RMC campus. It was nice to finally get a chance to walk around and take it all in. There were a lot of features that were very similar to MWC.So we’re at the final countdown for summer, and we’ve got lots more to cram in before it’s over!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
A Mary Wash reunion
This past weekend Tyler & I got to visit with some dear, old friends of mine from Mary Washington. Californians Meredith & Ryan (along with almost 8 week-old Evan) were on the East Coast for a wedding, and to visit family, so they made a pit-stop at our friend Heidi’s house in Fredericksburg. Heidi has a 3 year old daughter, Riley, who we met last summer when Tyler was a few months old. Meredith, Marty, & Elise (2) made the trip from Pennsylvania, and Shoshana came up from Raleigh with her two little girls, Reagan (3) & Lauren (just 2 weeks younger than Tyler). It was a house full of good friends, and our little ones. It had been many years since I had seen the majority of everyone. Meredith Thomas – 4 years ago at our wedding. Meredith Molloy – we think we figured out it was 2002, and so of course, we had never met each other’s little ones. Shoshana – I’m pretty sure it’s been since 2000. Like I mentioned before, we did see Heidi & Riley last summer, but unfortunately had not seen them since.
When Tyler & I got to Heidi’s, we went outside to see Heidi & the Merediths and to meet little Evan. What a cutie! It’s amazing. I had forgotten that Tyler was ever that small. Teeny, tiny little hands and feet. He’s so cute, and was such a good little man. I know he was trying to take in all of the excitement around him, with his wide & alert eyes. I did get to hold him for a short time, which was wonderful. Well, it was wonderful until Tyler realized what I was doing. I didn’t expect him to be jealous, but boy was he ever! He stood at my feet and whined and fussed, he tried to climb onto the ottoman that I was sitting on, and tried to climb on me while I had Evan in my arms. Needless to say, I had to give Evan back to his daddy before I was really ready. Once Evan was back with Ryan, Tyler calmed down and went back to playing with all of the little girls. I realized that this was the first time that Tyler had seen me hold another baby, and I guess that he just wasn’t ready to share his mommy with anyone.
Riley was a perfect little hostess, allowing the other kids to play with all of her toys and play in her bedroom. She also went around the room offering snacks. Reagan & Lauren were too sweet, and they both played with Tyler very well. Tyler seemed to always want whatever toy poor Reagan had, but she handled it so well and shared with him, even when it wasn’t Tyler’s turn. And beautiful Ellie was exactly how I pictured her to be. I know that seems like an odd thing to say about such an adorable little girl, but it’s funny, I had never met Ellie until that day, and I felt like I already “knew” her from reading the Molloy’s blog since the day Ellie was born. For two years, I’ve read a weekly blog about her, and all the things she’s learned and does. We all commented on that a lot that day. While we hadn’t seen each other (or even talked on the phone) in years, we felt like we hadn’t missed out on much in each other’s lives, thanks to the internet. 
After a few hours of indoor & outdoor play (it was SUCH a beautiful day, with temps in the 80s and low humidity), we decided to parade on over to the Mary Wash campus. Thanks to Marty for taking a lot of really great pictures with my camera. It was so neat to see four old girlfriends walking down Campus Walk, pushing the strollers of their little ones. (Shoshana had to head back to NC, unfortunately, and couldn’t make the trip to campus.) Four old girlfriends sitting in front of the fountain that they had met at to go to lunch 10 years ago, now sitting there with their children kicking and splashing in the water. Four old girlfriends reliving fun college memories, while the kids babbled away in their strollers or ran around playing. I was really glad that we were able to get over to the campus.
After campus, we headed over to Carl’s Ice Cream to get some frozen custard. Now, if you’re not an MWC alum or have never been to Fredericksburg, you probably don’t know what I am talking about. But Carl’s is just great. (Click here to find out a little more about what makes it so special.) We all got ice cream, or slushees, or shakes, and sat down to enjoy. Tyler loved his first taste of Carl’s, as I knew he would. And just as I also knew would happen, he became a wired little boy after that! 
We headed back to Heidi’s after that and had hot dogs and hamburgers before the Thomases, Tyler & I had to hit the road. (Yes, ice cream before dinner. What about it? Haha!) It was really cute to watch Ellie, Riley, & Tyler sitting at little tables together in their little chairs. I took advantage of the opportunity and got a few more minutes of “Evan time” in, before Tyler realized that I had run off and found me cuddling up with the little guy. I quickly handed him back to his daddy, finished our dinners, and off we went. Tyler & I had such a good time that day, and I thank Heidi for inviting us all into her home. It was so good to see everyone, and to finally catch up in person. I loved meeting all of the new additions, and hope that we’ll all be able to get together again sooner rather than later.

Monday, July 28, 2008
Goodbye living room, hello playroom

When we moved into this house 3 years ago, we were at a loss with what to do with our formal living room. We have a couch and a loveseat in there, my scrapbooking stuff (that's still collecting dust), a TV, bookshelf, and the corner hutch from my Nana & Grandaddy Woody's house. We rarely used the room at all. But I told myself from Day One that I wouldn't use that room as a playroom. It was too nice of a room for that. Well, fast forward to present day, and we're swimming in toys in our family room. Furniture has been rearranged to accomodate said toys. We haven't been able to use our ottoman in months, because we've had to keep it pushed up against the hearth as there's just no more room. And then there's the formal living room. It's just sitting there. Unused. Devoid of toys of any kind.
So Travis & I were talking on Friday night. Let's change the formal into a playroom. We'll buy a nice (but not too nice!) rug and will move all of the bigger toys in there. And so we did. We got a great deal on the rug at BJs, and with all of the wonderful natural light that we already get in there, really helps to brighten the room up even more. We've enjoyed spending time in there this weekend. And so has Tyler. His eyes just lit up when he saw many of his toys in what used to be the "forbidden room". He even went back and forth to the family room to bring a few of his smaller toys and books into the new playroom. And to make matters even better, we have (somewhat) reclaimed our family room. As I write this, I have my feet kicked up on the ottoman that I have so badly missed. It's a win-win.
Tyler turned 17 months old today, believe it or not. Just recently, Travis & I have started to notice that he is really changing a lot more. He's looking less and less like a baby, and more and more like a toddler. A big boy. No longer the helpless, tiny being that we brought home from the hospital. He's now a walking, talking, little man with his own thoughts & ideas. He's indepedent and ready to take on the world. And it's been so much fun to watch him grow up. But I would like time to slow down....just a little bit!!!!
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