



Well, we've been MIA for a few weeks, and I apologize. Christmas has always been a hectic time of year around here. Add to that a very active 9 month old, a 40 hour work week for each parent, throw in a stomach bug (for all 3 of us), and another case of RSV/bronchiolitis (topped off with a very first ear infection!) and you have sheer and utter chaos. And exhaustion. Don't forget exhaustion. I'll get the illness talk out of the way first. Yep, we all got a nasty stomach bug that Tyler graciously brought home from daycare at the beginning of the month. It's very difficult to care for your ill infant when you yourself are ill, and so is your husband. It was a long weekend in the beginning of the month. And just this week, I took Tyler back to the pediatrician, as daycare thought that he might have an ear infection, and he had been coughing and wheezing a lot again. Another case of RSV/bronchiolitis along with an ear infection. We're doing breathing treatments again, and have started an antibiotic. There is some discussion of starting him on an oral steroid (Pulmicort) to help prevent these recurring respiratory infections. We're not real sure why this is happening so often to our little man, but it could be that he was born a little too early (38 weeks), he could just be overly susceptible (Travis had some severe allergy issues as a child), or he could just need to outgrow it. It's kind of a wait and see. But hopefully he'll be all better for Christmas morning!
And speaking of Christmas, we've had a lot going on to prepare for the big day! We went Christmas tree shopping a few weekends ago, and Tyler seemed to have fun helping us choose his first tree. I grew up with white pines, so it's always a hunt to find a place around here that sells them. They just don't seem to be as popular or as abundant as they were when I was growing up. But we found a little lot right down the street from our house that had them! Tyler wasn't really thrilled with the decorating of the tree, nor was he very interested in the tree after it was decorated. That is, until there were presents under the tree. He immediately high-tailed it over to the tree to mess with presents and ornaments. After a few obligatory photos of the offending behavior, we set up the Superyard so that it enclosed the tree. No problems since, though Tyler does sometimes climb the gate to "get a better look" at the tree. It's really cute.
We went and had Tyler's 9 month pictures taken, along with a few Christmas pictures as well as our very first family portrait. We went to Portrait Innovations again, and though it was VERY crowded and VERY far behind schedule, we came away from there with some great pictures. As we waited for the pics to be printed, we headed over to Short Pump Town Center to see Santa Claus. And what a wonderful Santa he was. And we showed up at a great time - there was no line! There were only a few people in front of us. Tyler did very well and didn't cry at all. He did give Santa "the look", but other than that we think that it went quite smoothly. I'll admit, I cried seeing Tyler on Santa's lap. Something about seeing your child experience the joys and magic of the Christmas season for the first time really brings out the emotion. I get very teary eyed thinking about it now too. I can't wait to watch him grow and learn and experience new things each year.
We once again had it at our house, and had Tyler join in the festivities for as long as his little body would let him. He got lots of great gifts - a new toy drum, bath toys, and great clothes (including a VT outfit for him to wear on Orange Bowl day from Aunt Sara!). He didn't really "get" the unwrapping, but I think he had a good time with it nonetheless.
Travis' family will then come over for a late lunch that day to celebrate with us. And then, hopefully the three of us will be able to rest and relax for the rest of the evening! We're really looking forward to Christmas this year, though having everyone at our house will most certainly be a (hectic) change. We've gone a little overboard as far as Tyler is concerned. We were going to take a page from some other friends' books and wrap up toys that he already had, since he won't really know what's going on this year, and we're sure he's going to be more interested in the wrapping paper and boxes anyway. But that didn't happen. He hit the motherload this year. We're suckers. OK, I am a sucker. Oh well, it's only his first Christmas once, right?
If I don't get another post in between now and then, MERRY CHRISTMAS to everyone! And to our family & friends that we aren't able to be with this year, know that we love you and are thinking of you. We hope to see everyone soon. Have a safe and happy holiday!!!!!
We had Aunt Jenn & Uncle Brian over for dinner on Sunday for Jenn’s birthday. We had chicken enchiladas and Tyler once again ate at the table with us. (I make this a big deal because usually Trav & I don’t eat dinner until well after Tyler has gone to bed. So he usually eats solo.) He had his own dinner, but tried a spoonful of refried beans. His face said it all – I don’t think he liked them. Maybe he’ll warm up to them later. We know that Chris & Carol’s Emma sure did!!!! But he had a great time that night too, playing with Jenn & Brian. He showed off all his cutest tricks and toys and loved having Jenn chase him around the house. This is his newest game, and I’m not really sure when it started. But one night, Trav was taking Tyler upstairs for his bath, and I followed behind. Tyler was fussy, so I started saying that I was going to get him and next thing you know, I am chasing the two of them around the house. Tyler just giggled and laughed the whole time. Now, whenever you put him so he can look over your shoulder, he smiles and laughs at the person behind you, and that person must promptly chase you around. No exceptions to this rule. None. (OK, ONE exception. When it’s time to go to sleep, there is no chasing – no matter how cute the face. And that’s HARD to resist.)
After a short week of work and daycare (well, for Trav & Tyler…..I had to work on Friday until 1:00), we had Thanksgiving with Gramme and Granddad Snead, as well as Jenn & Brian and Grandma Smith. Tyler did so well here too. He had more turkey, potatoes, green beans, and pasta. He impressed everyone with his self-feeding ability and loved all the attention. He even got to sit in the highchair that Gramme used when she was a little girl – very special! Lunch was wonderful and we had a great time visiting with everyone. Grandma Smith gave Tyler lots of gifts – a new teaching teddy bear, a book, and his first Christmas ornament. As soon as we left there, we headed to Wal-Mart for our annual shopping trip. Yep, I said annual. Travis and I refuse to go to Wal-Mart – ever. So we discovered 2 years ago, that Wal-Mart on Thanksgiving is actually a pleasant place to be. So every year after lunch, we head there and load up on gifts and decorations and whatever else we may need. We were a bit concerned how it would go with no-nap Tyler, but it went very well. Tyler loves to be out in the stores anyway, since he’s so nosy, so it was ideal for him. We had a great time, and were home in time for Travis to catch the beginning of the Cowboys game.
On Friday, we loaded up the car and headed to Grandpa’s house after I got off of work. We had a big weekend there. Mark, Dina, & Erin Hamric came to stay Friday night too. We hadn’t seen them since the beach so I am so glad that we were able to spend some time with them. Dad had lots of people over on Saturday to watch the UVA/VA Tech game (GO HOKIES!!!!). Tyler did very well around everyone and even managed a nap throughout all the noise. He had a great time playing with Erin, Grace, & her cousin Blair. Bridges even came over with Wagner & Waylon, so there were lots of younger ones to entertain him. And on Sunday, we got to visit with both of his great Nanas – Woody & Scoggin! Nana Scoggin was passing through town as she and Eddie had returned from PA for Thanksgiving. What a nice surprise!
Tyler’s got a lot of new tricks up his sleeve now too. He’s decided that he wants to start pulling up now, and attempts to do so on just about anything and everything, including us. He’s getting really good at pulling himself to a sitting position from his tummy, and is still working on forward crawling. He’s gotten pretty good at backwards crawling. So good that I joke that I need to install a beeping alarm on his butt to let others know that he’s backing up. Though he’s a little later than some on the crawling, I have a feeling he’s decided to wait until the holidays to pull out all the stops and go for it all at once. As I start to pull out some of the Christmas decorations, I’ll have to take that into consideration. Ah, life with a little boy!!!!
I wanted to kick those people that repeatedly told me when I was pregnant, "Enjoy every minute of it. He's going to grow up so fast." It was just another one of those chiches that I wrote off. Well, here I am today, cursing those people. Why? Because they were right. Tyler's first year is going by so fast. And in the last week, it seems like he has just taken this jump into Little Boyhood. It's scary. And exciting. And scary. (Oh wait, I already said that.) In the matter of one week, it seems that he no longer fits into his 6 - 9 month clothing anymore. He's "graduated" into a big boy winter coat. He's eating more table food and had his first taste of real (not pureed) chicken and beef this week. He has his first pair of shoes. We moved his crib mattress down to the lowest level (not because he's pulling up yet, but because we are preparing - it's coming ANY DAY now). That's a lot of big boy stuff. A lot.
We decided to give Tyler a little taste of our food this week, as I had taken some chicken breasts and cooked them in the crock pot all day. I knew it would be really tender, so I thought that this would be the best trial for him. He made his initial "what-in-the-world-is-this" face, then proceeded to self feed himself several pieces. He has become quite the carnivore, just like his Mommy & Daddy.
We sent him to daycare with some of the leftover chicken and carrots, and he devoured them. So we also tried some pot roast. Same result. We have a meat-eater, people! Tyler has decided that he's not real keen on being fed. He'd much rather be a self-feeder. This can be difficult, since he doesn't get 100% of the food into his mouth (and then his tummy). So we still work to get some Stage 3 food into him, and he reluctantly eats it. If he had his way, he'd feed himself all the way. We'll be there before we know it.
This week also brought a new coat and new shoes. We had bought a winter coat (or what we thought would be a winter coat) at Babies R Us back when he was just a newborn (or maybe even before he was even born - I can't remember anymore!). Well, when the weather here dipped into the upper-20s, lower-30s we discovered that the coat we bought wasn't quite what we wanted. So we bought him a nice warm toggle coat - in 12 to 18 months!!!! It's a little big on him now, but he's got several months to grow into it. And growing is something that he does well!
He also got his first real pair of shoes this week. With the cold weather and the holidays coming up, we thought it would be best for him to have a pair of shoes. We have a wedding to go to in December, plus 9-month portaits, and family pics coming up. Shoes would look nice. So we bought him a pair of Pedipeds. Ironically, the style we got him are named "Tyler". Must be meant to be. They fit him perfectly and he seems to tolerate them! We'll see how he does as he starts to wear them more often. But they are adorable!
I just don't know if I'm ready for this little boy to become a big boy! His first Thanksgiving and his first Christmas will be here before we know it. And then his first birthday will be soon thereafter. His first birthday???? Enjoy every minute of it. He's growing up so fast.

We will be dressing him up again tonight, provided that he is on his best behavior! We will take him to a few of the neighbors’ houses, and then he will “help” us to hand out candy until his bedtime. He seems to really like his costume, and my guess is that he is able to play with the tentacles, so he isn’t even aware that he’s dressed up! 
Anyway, we had a great time watching the babies play with each other, but there were more babies to add to this equation. On Saturday, 2 more babies arrived at the house – Evan and David. Evan is the little boy here in Richmond that is 6 days older than Tyler, and David lives in Hampton and is just a few weeks older. Once all the babies and parents were gathered together, we hopped in our cars and headed to Belvedere Plantation, right outside of Fredericksburg. They were having a Fall Harvest and it was a beautiful day to visit there with the little ones. And speaking of little ones, we aren’t done yet. Once we got there, we were greeted by RP and his mom. RP will be one year old this Friday and lives in Culpeper. And soon thereafter, the last two joined our ranks – Claire and Lily from Arlington. Claire is a month older than Tyler, and Lily just a few weeks older than that. Have you been counting? That’s 7 babies, all under the age of 1. Yep, seven. And seven mommies (and one daddy who came along – our photographer!).
So we strapped everyone into strollers and began our journey through the Plantation. Oh wait, what was that? How did all of these mommies and babies from all over the state of Virginia meet up? I must have failed to mention. Um, yeah, I met these women on the internet. All of them. Including the one that stayed at our house. Yep, I said the internet. Long, long, long story short, when I was pregnant, I went to WebMD and found a message board full of other pregnant women and began to go there for support and answers to questions. Fast forward several months, and we are now on a new message board, but are all still together. There are about 65 of us, all over the US, and several people have met in real life. I actually met Lori and Evan this way here in Richmond. So it may be weird to some people, and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t think it was weird in the beginning, but it worked out for us. It’s absolutely amazing to have so many women going through the same things that you are. And it’s great to have little ones for Tyler to meet and play with.
Back to our journey. It was such a pretty day, warm with a light breeze every now and then. We took the little ones to watch the pig races, walked them by the displays of all the animals (Tyler particularly enjoyed watching the geese), and finally plopped down near a picnic table and threw down a few blankets on the ground and watched the babies go at it. Go at what, you might ask? Go at each other. Madness ensued. It was great. The crawlers were all over the place, and Tyler sat back and just took it all in. We all said beforehand that we would stay until the mass meltdown occurred, and we all kind of agreed that 2:00 would be that time. Well, like clockwork, the meltdowns started around 1:30, and we were on our way to the cars by 2:00. Both Madison and Tyler traveled very well, sleeping both on the way there and on the way home. It was cute to see them in the backseat together, and when they were awake, they would stare each other down. “What are you doing in the backseat? Wow, this is pretty cool!”
Madison and Tyler spent all day Sunday playing and catching up on their sleep from the action-packed day before. I think Tyler was a little sad to see Mad go home. I know that I was sad to see them go! It was a busy weekend, but it was so much fun! We all want to try and get together again in the near future for yet another play date, but with the holidays and colder weather on the horizon, it may be a while before we can get it on the calendar. At any rate, we had a great time! Now, if Tyler would start to pick up on some of those “tricks” that Madison taught him…… 
Yep, I called it the Tyler Tour. My dad has lovingly dubbed our trips home to Lynchburg as this since Tyler was 5 weeks old. We come with so much "stuff" that it's practically like going on tour! Travis joked once that we should get yellow shirts and have "EVENT STAFF" printed on them. In any event, the Tour stopped in Lynchburg this past weekend for a visit with Grandpa, Uncle Eddie, and the rest of the gang. We left home Friday evening after we got Tyler ready for bed, and got to Lynchburg around 9:30. We had a relaxing evening, chatting with Dad and his friend Berkley, and watching Tyler play well past his bedtime. He quite enjoyed showing off and playing with everyone.
Saturday brought a visit to Uncle Eddie's house and lots of visitors at Grandpa's. Oh yeah, and oozing, runny eyes and a gunky nose. Why wouldn't he get a cold? He just got over something else. *sigh* But he was still his happy go-lucky self for the most part, so we didn't worry too much. I kind of figured that it was a side effect of the flu shot that he had gotten on Thursday. But I digress. At Uncle Eddie's, we got to see a very big dog, named Riley. Tyler wasn't too sure about a dog of this size, but the dog really seemed to like him! Tyler was more interested in "reading" Eddie's paper.
Back at Grandpa's, we were visited by Sarah English, a dear old childhood friend, and her husband Steve. This was their first time meeting Tyler and the boy didn't disappoint. He proudly showed off all his tricks, including his newest attempts at crawling. It's more of a backward shuffle, but it looks like he'll be on the move soon! Guess we'll need to start babyproofing! As kind of a side note, it's been pretty difficult for me not to get a little discouraged that Tyler hasn't been a babe on the move yet. I talk to many other mommies with babies around Tyler's age, and most of them are scooting around all over the place. But I try to remind myself that all babies are different. Different milestones, different babes. All in good time. I know in a few short weeks, I'm going to look back on this post and laugh and wish that he was still immobile!!!! But we also had the Radicks and Hamrics over for dinner, as well as Berkley and her daughter, Grace. They brought Tyler an adorable toy, his very own pirate ship! It's a new favorite around the house now. We all had a great night and it was a beautiful evening for a cookout.
Sunday was lunch with Nana and Grandaddy and once again, Tyler worked hard to put a smile on everyone's face, even though you could tell that he was very tired and starting to feel the effects of the newest cold that had set in. He finally caved and took a nice nap on Nana's chest. The ride home wasn't bad at all, as he slept the majority of the way. He most certainly needed it. At home, we noticed that his eyes were really "gooey" (sorry, no better word for it), but he wasn't running a fever, so we didn't do anything about it. We ended up taking him BACK to the pediatrician on Monday though, as it seemed that the "goo" was starting to bother him, and we wanted to rule out pink eye. No pink eye, just a cold or possible bacterial infection. They are running some tests on the "goo" to find out. In the meantime, we have him on Augmentin. If it turns out to be viral, we will take him off the antibiotic. But the doc reassured me that there's nothing wrong with him getting these illnesses so often and that we are doing everything right. He just seems to be a little more susceptible. Oh fun. But he seems to be doing better (again, knock on wood). But we have a couple of busy weeks ahead. Visitors this weekend, visitors next weekend, and Halloween coming up! Can't wait to show you guys the costume!!!!!
So now that Tyler is pretty much back to his old self, we're able to get out more and are up for visitors once again. We're also able to work on "new" skills, such as sitting up unassisted (done!), self-feeding (working on it), and sippy cups (kind of get it). Sitting up is no feat for Tyler anymore. We used to keep the Boppy behind him at all times - just in case. Well, no need anymore! We do try to keep a pillow behind wherever his head may land if he flings himself backwards, but those occasions are rare that it's actually needed. It is so nice to be able to sit him down somewhere and know that he can entertain himself for a few without us needing to run in every 2 seconds to pick him up because he fell. He loves to just sit and play with his toys. And he loves it even more when you get in the floor to play WITH him. Grandpa Ed visited this week, and spent a lot of time in the floor with him, and he ate it up!
For self-feeding, we have given Tyler a few things - mainly zwieback toast and some Gerber puffs. He's gotten a pretty good handle on the toast, and will actually consume a good amount of it, instead of it ending up on the floor as a gooey, soggy mess. The puffs are taking a little more getting used to. He doesn't quite have the "pincher" action going on yet, so he pretty much manhandles the puffs and tries to put fistfuls in his mouth, only to have the puffs either stick to his palms or fly onto his lap or the floor. We were at TGI Fridays this past weekend (right before we raided the Carter's outlet in Williamsburg) and packed a sippy cup and some puffs too. He sat in the high chair and sipped a bit on his cup (well, sort of) and played with his puffs. He did get a few in his mouth, but right now it's just all practice. On the subject of food, I thought I would also just add that he has started getting a 3rd meal each day. We are now sending a tub of veggies to daycare with him. As it stands now, he gets oatmeal with fruit in the morning with Trav, a veggie at daycare, and rice cereal with another veggie with me at night. I have been sending him to daycare with the veggies that he won't seem to eat from me - green beans, carrots, garden veggies. Apparently, he'll eat ANYTHING for the ladies at daycare. They comment on how he just "laps up his food"! Funny how he already knows how to play me.....

Well, to answer the first question on everyone's mind - How is Tyler feeling? Well, he's acting as though he still feels great. But he still has a bit of a cough and some congestion. So on Friday, we took him BACK to the pediatrician (for those who are counting, this was Visit #4 since Labor Day). She wanted to get some chest x-rays taken, so she sent us to one of the hospitals in town......at 3:00.....on a Friday......all the way across town......not fun. But we went, Tyler was well-behaved, we got the x-ray, and waited for the call from the pediatrician. She said that the results showed the beginning stages of pneumonia in the right side. So we started some antibiotics, and we are continuing with the albuterol inhaler as needed. Since going on the antibiotics, we have noticed a difference, so hopefully, we have really kicked this for good. He has a follow-up appointment next Thursday, after the meds are done, and I am sure we'll get another x-ray to ensure a clean bill of health. What a month.....what a month.
Football season is here, and Travis couldn't be happier. And now he has a little buddy to watch the games with him. His parents bought Tyler this Tony Romo jersey. It looks so authentic, and I have to admit, though I am not a Cowboys fan, it is a pretty darned cute onesie! But wait until Uncle Eddie sees this - I'm sure a Washington Redskins jersey will be on the way!
Tyler tried his first zwieback toast this week. He really seemed to like it, once he figured out what to do with it. He made quite the soggy little mess, but it was so much fun to watch him experience this new food. We also got to watch him do his new "trick" with his toast. While he's sitting up, he'll turn his body around as much as he can, and he'll "hide" whatever he's holding in his hand behind him. Then he'll turn towards the front again, only to immediately whip back to the side to see if he can find the dropped item. It's loads of fun for him!
He's chatting up a storm now, and is saying "dada" OFTEN. It makes our hearts melt, but Travis' even more so. We're working with him on "mama", but for now we just get "mmmmmmaaaaaaa". He's trying! And I'm trying to wait patiently......